I absolutely cringe when someone says they listen to "emo" bands like Fallout Boy, Panic at the Disco, and Paramore. Hell, I love Paramore but I think of them clearly as pop punk or even a pop band. I hate having to describe to people that the emo I listen to is different than the the Third Wave of emo or most bands on Warped Tour, which seems to carry the mainstream definition of emo these days. Most people don't understand or care, not that I blame them. I guess I just hate thinking that bands like Into It. Over It. and TWIABP will be embraced by the same people who don't give two shits about the "emo" I like (or maybe that means those bands are changing into mainstream bands. The horror!). I like thinking that I'm part of small, select scene where everybody "gets" it. Now that's changing but I'm personally trying to accept it. So I totally understand where you're coming from.