You're being way harsh on the good advice: Life acts on the inverse law of entropy: that is, it becomes more ordered with time, and this order becomes boring after a very small while, though we only notice it while drowning in it. I'm not married, but I can imagine that living with the same person in the same way day after day, month after month, can take its toll in the same way other kinds of routines do. As such, it's important to add a spice or two every once in a while; maybe not renting RV for its own sake, but dancing sounds good. I say - go ahead, learn something you didn't know, figure new things out. Travel. Explore. Do something you usually don't and see what sticks. The world is gigantic; you'll always find something new.Add novelty to your routine. Go dancing or rent an RV.