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To Fall In Love With Anyone, Do This
To Fall In Love With Anyone, Do This  ·  6
Complexity  ·  3916 days ago
nytimes.com  ·  #thehumancondition  ·  #thehumancondition.Complexity

And here are the questions referred to in the article.

But love is a many splendored thing. I suspect this might engender instant intimacy but love? In the actual study the phrase titled is 'interpersonal closeness'.

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rjw  ·  3916 days ago  ·  link  ·  

We need a follow-up article in six months!

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kingmudsy  ·  3912 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'd also be curious what effect this would have on people who are already in love? Or what about a struggling marriage? What if the people were close friends already--some of the information might not even be new.

It'd be interesting to see how different groups would react.

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user-inactivated  ·  3916 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I wonder if it helps with self-confidence to stare into your own eyes like that.

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rob05c  ·  3916 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I wonder if it helps with self-confidence

Or narcissism.

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Dendrophobe  ·  3915 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Don't do it in the dark!

http://mindhacks.com/2010/09/18/the-strange-face-in-the-mirror-illusion/

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user-inactivated  ·  3915 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I say "I wonder", but I've done it before just to see. :P It was just before sundown; not sure if that was dark enough, but I found that with the right distance (almost nose touching the mirror), if I stared long enough into my eyes, it began to feel dissociative, and it was like I was looking at a different person staring coolly back at me. I normally never look at people that close, so it was a bit unnerving.

I should mention that it didn't help with self-confidence nor make me more narcissistic, but maybe I didn't do it properly or at the right distance...?

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